Here are some thoughts on how to keep your relationship, and yourself, happy and balanced from some really smart guy named Barton Goldsmith, he has a Ph.D. so he has to be smart….right?
1. Kids learn some pretty important stuff like, how to be with another person and lessons in life. Because of that, parents should have a good relationship with each other. You’re setting the example, so make it a good one.
2. Men…cherish your partner. If they feel your love and know that you are there for them, it really creates a strong foundations.
3. Ladies…your partner needs to know you support them emotionally and are their biggest cheerleader. We all need to know that we are the star player in the eyes of the person we love.
4. The most important thing to know about yourself is that you are good enough. You don’t have to be the best at anything to have a great life.
5. The feeling of being loved by the one that you love, is vital. Life without the feeling of being loved is just kind of bland and going through the motions.
6. The most important thing to do in life is to contribute to the well-being of humanity. Everything else aside, the knowledge that you have made the world a tiny bit better just by being here and trying to help is a great way to get you through the rough patches.
7. Have fun with each other. Go on adventures, hikes, walks through the neighborhood, game night, and go on dates…even if you’re married.
In other words…just be a good person. Remember, you can never say I Love You too much to the person you love (or your kids), but don’t just tell them…show them as well. Oh, and don’t forget to love yourself too…no negative self-talk, just love and respect for yourself.
Chris Kennedy
